Did you know that men are saving themselves for high quality women? Yes, those guys exist. And there’s a whole wave of them on the internet. Specifically a whole generation. It’s a bit of anti-culture that is breeding on the red pill IDW and mainstream digital media.
There are several guys to blame for this and I could not be more grateful. I think it’s funny, because they are such a giant community of over millions of young men finding their way through life, not having all the answers just yet, which shows a bit of how men might be asking the wrong questions. It takes a lot of inner work to get to a place where you can be confident in validating yourself.
But it is so much more than that. Experience is the true teacher, and as someone has been happily married for four years, I have a little bit of answers here and there. Not all of them, but definitely a few steps ahead of some women feeling like they have to compromise their bodies to get a decent relationship. Here is why you shouldn’t have casual sex.
It’s all backwards. Women give the casual sex experience to get the girlfriend experience. All while men give the boyfriend experience to get the casual sex experience. Both have it all wrong and each gender’s goals are mixed up, because they do not understand that life is not about instant gratification and ‘being happy’. That’s wishy washy and watered down from platitude media.
What it boils down to is humans needs purpose. We need contention in order to grow. Being challenged by all the things that fulfill us is what makes life more delicious and drives us. The ultimate goals is to have a family and continue the cycle of creating something spectacular.
Ana Psychology, a PhD clinical psychology student, shares her studies. In one of her episodes, she divulges how men do not respect women who are easily available sexually, because they do not have to earn her countenance. They will keep seeing the girl nonetheless, because they know she is available for them to compromise her body for them.
Remember that in the wild, males are always chosen by the females, and multiple will present themselves as viable candidates, though these females still might not choose them. They hold out for something better. Male birds are known for doing dances and bending over backwards for women to mate with them. There is a lizard in my backyard who is a huge male that is constantly doing push ups to impress the female lizards. He always gets turned down.
If the answer is not a resounding yes towards a potential suitor, cut him off as soon as you can to not prolong the pain. Women need to remember to be gentle and understanding while men should remember not to give up. Both parties need to keep on working on themselves and continue to excel in working as team members when they are successful in finding a partner. Here are things nobody tells you about being married.
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