I Realized My Weird Dating Curse

I noticed that when I date guys, they become super successful while we date! Maybe it’s because I have such a shining and terrible personality that they realize what a good person they are, and become better? Perhaps. But I think I’m the catalyst who’s the kick in the bum they need to succeed haha. Either way, I’m happy for my exes! All of them. You know who you are.

Judith, the woman in the painting The Kiss by Gustav Klimt, was his lover and a socialite. He modeled Judith after her – Emilie Flöge. She was a lady from a wealthy family that went on to date many men who are famous today. This included intellectuals, composers, artists, you name it. I am Emilie. Or I have the Emilie touch. Everything she touched turned to gold.

Honestly, I don’t know whether to be proud, or excited, or bummed haha. I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all. And the longer I stay with a guy, and the deeper the relationship, the more successful and happier he becomes. It’s such a weird curse!

Whatever this spell is and whomever cast it upon me was wise to do so. Sometimes I think it’s my dad or a fairy godmother who was “watching over me”, or just didn’t like me when she saw my face haha.

I am definitely a human good luck charm or one of those optimization people who comes into a business to turn things around. When in dating, I think I’m just having fun! I don’t have a thing for hypergamy nor do I believe it’s bad. This was just an odd thing that stood out to me with all my relationships.

This is a total compliment to all my exes, and I guess it reflects well on me. 🙂 It definitely feels good to know people you love are out there being their best selves.

Do you have a weird or funny thing that happens when you date people? What are your realizations in dating? Comment below! I can’t be the only one haha.

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